S3, E13: 12 Years a Single

Essence has been single for the last 12 years. During that time, she encountered many frogs, including a few who have gotten other women pregnant while dating her. She is talking about life in the friend-zone and sharing why she has given up on the ‘Say Yes to the Dress’ fantasy.

About the Guest

Essence is a Virginia native turned NYC Transplant and Brooklyn resident. She is a graduate of North Carolina A&T State University. Essence works as a production accountant by day, and a part-time comedian by night.


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